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t shirt that says: if you think I’M beautiful you should see my MUM
Anonymous asked: Ugh I don't get boys, he messages me first and then just doesn't reply after I do? He did that last week and this time it was on fb and I didn't catch it for 20min and replied as soon as I saw it .about 40min since I replied he was online again, I don't fuckjng get it please reply to me :( the next day (today) it even says "seen" and STILL no reply. i just dont get why he would message first, i just want to know what he wanted, and it gets my hopes up. should I send another one? :/
woahhhh that you’re asking this of me! i am terrible with boys. in my experience this is how you should deal in general:
don’t talk to him 24/7!! it’s hecka boring and will ruin the time that you’re actually together cause you will already have said everything! and don’t expect instant replies, people have lives and tbh i don’t think boys even realise that they might be slighting you! it is good to learn to be chill about this stuff, trust me, it will save you hours of worry. if he doesn’t reply it’s his loss. if you can’t stop thinking about it read a book or watch a movie, don’t sit there worrying!HOWEVER if you do end up in a relationship w this guy make sure you both know how much contact is ok cause he needs to fulfil your needs but he might also need his space. or vice versa! communication is vital here bb.
my advice (you really don’t have to take it idek if it works): don’t reply, let him come to you, but when he does make sure he knows that you’re interested